Often I hear the complains "He keeps going to that place with his friends!" & " She dresses too sexy!" The reply goes something like: "She/he met me this way so can't complain now!" This is something to think about when we are dating.
*Don't start a relationship with someone who you want to make change entirely.
*If you meet your charming date at a club, probably this person enjoys music, drinks, parties. You can't expect to forbid this person from ever stepping into a club again.
*You felt attracted because she was wearing radiant make up, shinny jewels and a beautiful dress that outlined her figure. Now you feel threaten that other men will feel attracted to her if she keeps dressing this way?
The truth is that YES others will still feel attracted to your partner. And your partner will still want to maintain a social relationships with his/her friends. By no means should this interfere with your relationship. Remember that a huge part of making it work is compromise and in order to do so there must me trust and respect.
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