Sex in the shower

Sex-ie 01

--------------------------> the shower

There's something about waterfalls that make it romantic. The relaxing sound of the water falling and splashing, could that be it? If you want to feel bare and intimate, with the feeling that there is no one else at this moment more important that the two of you, try this. Set up the mood, or go with the spontaneity that sometimes hits us when aroused. While undressing lead your partner to the bathroom and turn the water on (shower). Let it fall and concentrate on relaxing, kissing, etc. What keeps this hot is the constant need to be touching, caressing each others face to get the water out, and so on.

* What other places in or out of the house make doing it different than in the bedroom?

Comment below!

Click here are some more ideas!

Quit thinking about it and LEAVE!

She says "I'm unhappy, terrified every time he comes, afraid of what he'll shout next. I hate my husband. He is always yelling and sometimes hits us. I want to leave him but what will people think? It will hurt our kids! I'll have to deal with everything on my own."

#1 What will people think about you leaving your abusive husband?
Think about this sentence again. What people think is not a problem it is an aid. People will congratulate you if they know the ordeal that you've been living and what you are saving your kids from. People will hep you. You are in control of what people you allow to affect you. Stop excusing yourself with people, show them by your actions the result of your choice!

#2 He'll be angry.
YES! He will be upset that he no longer has full control over you. He'll be fuming and he can no longer hurt you and your kids in order to get out his anger and will have to face his issues. If you are afraid of what he could do, look for help. Ask the authorities to help you, tell your family, friends, co-workers, schoolmates, kids' teachers, they can be your body guards.

#3 How to feed and shelter my kids alone, with out his income?
The economy isn't in favor of anyone, much less in favor of a single mom. Sometimes there's family, friends and government agencies that can help. Get the word out there that you need help and get that support group working. Hopefully you are employed. If not, start getting ideas together for ways you can increase your income. Remember there will be one less of you and so expenses should be less. Talk to a legal advisor about possibilities of keeping some of the things and money. Also, think about going back to school and look into short courses that can higer your posiblities at getting hired.

#4 The kids.
There will come a day when they will thank you. If you are unhappy and hurting they are unhappy and hurting. Being abused is not good for anything! If you treat your car poorly one day it will stop working! It is the same with people. Your kids need you to protect them. Someone does not become a father just by fertilizing an egg. Talk to you kids all the way. This separation will become a journey and kids like to know what's happening and how close are they to the destination. Help them to undestand that this is for their wellbeing. Let you kids know how much you love them.

Break ups are not fun even for adolecents who seem to change partners as the seasons change. You are smart, beautiful and worth a millioton!!

How to deal with falling out of love.

During different times in our lives we have different needs. There was a time when you had the perfect toy, you felt that no other toy was needed to fill you with fun! But you "grew out" of it. You interests and your need changed. With love things are similar.
I'm not saying that love partners are toy you use to have fun with then get tired and toss it. But that person that made you laugh has got caught up with stressful obligations and is no longer filling the empty space in your "chart of needs". And so without noticing this you begin to replace that joy. Then one day you confront yourself and ask why am I still with this person? I'm only using this as an example of why we fall out of love.
There can be tons of needs or reasons why you love that person. It is not any one's fault but if you are feeling uncomfortable you owe it to you and to your partner to be truthful. Speak up.

* First evaluate what are you missing? Which spark burnt out?

* In a relationship you are not alone! How does your partner feel about this? Sit and talk, be open to listen to how the other person feels. If you are not happy, chances are no one is happy!

* Can it be fixed? Are you willing to mend and put effort or have you decided to move on.

* Get help! You guys have family and friends and while you don't need any added pressure sometimes doing activities together, talking to others about each other, etc. reminds you of why you love each other.

Remember to be calm and not aggressive and respect each other's needs and desires.

Good Luck!

Cooking love 01

Kisses: are synonym of softness, sweetness, loving. And Coconut Kisses are no exception.

You'll need:

2 Cups of coconut shaves
1 Cup water
1 1/2 Cups of dark brown sugar (Could be Splenda brown sugar)

Put the water and the coconut to boil in a saucepan. Then add the brown sugar.
Slow cook on low heat for 30 minutes. Carefully stir until it become sticky. Then use a spoon to drop the mixture onto a greased cookie sheet. Let them cool and harden.

What started it all is what we argue about now!

Often I hear the complains "He keeps going to that place with his friends!" & " She dresses too sexy!" The reply goes something like: "She/he met me this way so can't complain now!" This is something to think about when we are dating.
*Don't start a relationship with someone who you want to make change entirely.
*If you meet your charming date at a club, probably this person enjoys music, drinks, parties. You can't expect to forbid this person from ever stepping into a club again.
*You felt attracted because she was wearing radiant make up, shinny jewels and a beautiful dress that outlined her figure. Now you feel threaten that other men will feel attracted to her if she keeps dressing this way?
The truth is that YES others will still feel attracted to your partner. And your partner will still want to maintain a social relationships with his/her friends. By no means should this interfere with your relationship. Remember that a huge part of making it work is compromise and in order to do so there must me trust and respect.